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Are You Struggling with a Poor Body Image? Consider this...

3/21/2014

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Are You Struggling with a Poor Body Image?  by www.aunaturalenutrition.com
Originally published on Wellness-Media.com 

When you look at yourself in front of a mirror, do you love what you see? Not just like, but unconditionally love and accept every part of your body? Sometimes that can be hard to do.  Do you catch yourself wishing you were thinner, better looking, younger, in better shape, or in different body? When you were a child, it was probably easy to look into a mirror and love what you saw, without any judgment or critique.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful if as adults we could look at our bodies the mirror with unconditional love?  So, if you’re struggling with poor body image, consider:

Would you be happy in your own skin if you weren’t comparing yourself to any other person or standard?

It’s completely natural to compare yourself to others.  Put your body in perspective and be fair to yourself.  Are you comparing your body to supermodels, pro athletes, people much younger, your former self, or your body before children?  Accept that perfection is unachievable.

A positive attitude and self-confidence are very attractive features.

An air of confidence is sexy at any age.  Possessing a positive attitude makes life enjoyable by attracting more positive energy in return.  Do you avoid life because of a negative body image?  No matter our outward appearance, we can always be our best self.  For example, your looks need not dictate whether you are a great dancer, funny, an interesting conversationalist, intelligent, artistic, a great friend, spouse, or parent. Grow your confidence by working, playing, and loving with purpose and passion.

Be your own cheerleader, not your own worst enemy.

Do you engage in negative self-talk? Do you verbally complain about your body features? You could be inadvertently saying, “This particular part of me is not worthy of love.”  My Christian faith teaches me that the body is a vessel for the immortal soul.  God created your body in His image, and it is good and worthy of complete love.  Talk to yourself with compassion and understanding.  Call yourself “sweetheart” or “a child of God”.

Are you striving to be healthy first? 

The people that truly love you want you to be healthy and be an important part of their lives, no matter your external appearance. You want to be there for them, too. Focus on your health by eating a whole foods diet, doing exercise you enjoy, avoiding stress, and getting plenty of sleep. A holistic, healthy lifestyle and a positive body image often go hand in hand.

You have the power to choose what your future will look like.

We are stuck with the genes we’ve inherited, yet we can actually turn our genes “on” or “off” by making healthy choices with food and lifestyle.  The choices we have made thus far, whether healthy or unhealthy, are reflected in our body.  Going forward, you can make healthy choices that manifest in an improved body image, plus help you avoid accelerated aging and modern-day diseases.

Think about your attitude toward aging.

Aging happens to all of us, if we’re lucky. We all want to age gracefully. Unfortunately, time does not stand still at your most svelte time of life.  Are you aggressively fighting getting older? It’s true that you’re as young as you feel.  Stressing about aging is counterproductive and a waste of precious time.  Try to be grateful for those gray hairs of wisdom and the “tiger stripes” of motherhood.  Strive to be the best you can be at every stage of life.

Will this matter when you’re age 50 or 100?

Will you wish you spent more “quality time” hating your belly or your nose? Will your children keep you out of their wedding photos or put you in an old folk’s home because they can’t stand the look of your flabby arms?  Will big love handles prevent you from entering the pearly gates?  Make it a goal to be glad that you celebrated life to the fullest extent: sharing your smile, laughing, learning, and loving.
Are You Struggling with a Poor Body Image?  by www.aunaturalenutrition.com

Why I wrote this article....

It was a day when I went to the grocery store and the 20-something young man who bagged my groceries told me that I look like Angelina Jolie and said I was, in his words, "smokin' hot".  Well, then and there I knew that my self-imposed body image issues were ridiculous.  I've always carried myself with an air of sexy self-confidence, and I set out a plan to keep that!  "Baby, I've still got it!"

Thankfully, I have always been blessed with an innate sense of self-confidence and self-awareness.  However, I have found myself slightly critical of my body when I look in the mirror.  I experienced the self-judgement that I know most women experience, and I didn't like the feeling.  I admit that I started to let my body image affect my self image.  

The body issues came up because a few years ago I changed my diet to a VERY low-carb diet and I got way too thin.  Yes, I know that's a problem many women would kill to have, but it wasn't healthy.  (I changed from a low-calorie, low-fat, Weight Watcher's type diet to low-carb/higher-fat diet because I was tired of being hungry all the time.) Unfortunately, this was before I found my passion for nutrition.  I followed the low-carb lifestyle all wrong!  Mine was essentially zero-carb, which is not healthy for an extended period of time (I'll do a blog post about that topic soon).  Plus, I was eating low-carb garbage foods.  I deprived my body of much-needed nutrients and even lost my period for 8 months.  Friends and family got worried about me.

I eventually learned about the importance of eating a nutrient dense, whole-food diet, earned my masters degree in Health & Nutrition, and I regained my health, plus some needed weight.  Now, I am a perfectly normal size 8.  The body issues arrived when the size 2 clothes I had in my closet didn't fit me anymore.  I had to let-out the clothes that I had taken-in.  I didn't enjoy clothes feeling tight, uncomfortable, stretching, and not falling smoothly on my body.  I have maintained this size 8 for several now, so I figure that I'm at the size God intended me to be, since I'm eating a nutritious, real-food diet.  This girl now has shapely hips, thighs, and a booty.  I am voluptuous and I'm proud if it!!

With some perspective and introspection, this is what I realized, remembered, and appreciated about my body:  
  • I feel abundantly healthy.  
  • I have boundless & deep cellular energy (I can outlast my tennis opponents). 
  • My body does what I want it to do.  (I am flexible, nimble, and strong.)
  • My body shape is a sexy, feminine hourglass figure.  (Think sex kitten.)  ;-)
  • My round rear-end is no longer saggy (No more gaunt face either.)
  • This girl has muscles!  (I can do a mean squat & plank and bring in a big load of groceries in one trip from the garage)!
  • I look and feel young for my age.
  • I am much more relaxed about food choices and life in general.
  • My hormones have improved tremendously.
  • God made me in his image.  My body is one of His wonderful creations.
  • My self worth need not be dependent on my outward appearance.
  • My true beauty, identity, and personality come from within.
  • My husband adores me and my body.  I am truly blessed!

I hope that if you ever struggle with a poor body image, that you look at yourself as a whole person instead of nit-picking yourself body-part by body-part.  If your weight isn't what you'd like it to be, love and accept yourself as you are.  If you yearn for your youth, instead try to be the best you can be at your age now. Attitude is everything in life!

For more on this topic and incorporating whole foods, Female Health Expert, Stefani Ruper, has just published a new book titled: Sexy by Nature: The Whole Foods Solution to Radiant Health, Life-Long Sex Appeal, and Soaring Confidence. Check it out! 

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Are You Struggling with a Poor Body Image?  by www.aunaturalenutrition.com
Are You Struggling with a Poor Body Image?  by www.aunaturalenutrition.com
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Eric
8/4/2015 02:52:35 am

This is a very good article. Some very good points are brought-up. I have seen, heard, met & read about so many people that find themselves not good looking, when I found them to be very good looking. (maybe they could dress a bit better, but...) I would like to see a 'sister article' here written by someone that is not "smoking hot/angelina jolie" like, but someone that has heard the exact opposite - told that they are ugly even if just over hearing it from family, friends, strangers, children, etc. Not "BDD" (body dismorphic disorder) but going on facts. With this I think it would be fantastic if people wrote-in ideas on how to correct / fix / better these people that are surely struggling every few minutes of their only existence here on Earth with their image. (Giving strict guidelines of what NOT to type (example: 'be yourself', 'someone will love you for who you are!', 'god luvs you and has a wonderful plan for your life!', 'just be positive'!" etc).

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Jenny
8/4/2015 04:40:24 am

Thanks for your kind words, Eric. Your idea is great, too. I did write the article hoping that the tips I give are universal, and another perspective would just add to better understanding and compassion.

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